If several months had already passed and still you can’t get her out of your mind despite an in depth soul searching and going out on dates with potential love interest then maybe you have to assess yourself  if you really would like to win back your ex girlfriend.

It’s important that you are very sure of your feeling first so you can go forward with your goal with greater intensity and desire.  You will also be able to come up with some strategies that you can employ to win her back because you have already known her temperaments, her mindset, her weaknesses and priorities.

Review also the instances or factors that lead to or cause your breakup, so you can get a lot of insights on how to win back your ex girlfriend. If it’s because of something that you have done that offended her then maybe you can come up with some creative ways to convey to her that you are repentant and that you are strong in your resolve not to commit it again if she will give you another shot at your relationship.

Don’t push yourself too hard. Find her weaknesses and start on square one. You can even use the same stuff and tactics when you were just wooing her the first time. If she is into fitness craze then invite her to join with you in marathons for a cause or gift her with running gears or wellness supplements. If she likes music, download her favorite songs and the hits of her favorite artists, store it in a usb or ipod and send it to her. Don’t say anything yet that you are so sorry and that you love her very much because sometimes action is more sincere than words. Saying these things also can be perceived as a pressure and her reaction maybe an instant rejection. Give her time to heal and to miss your affection.

Be assured that you are a unique person and that she can never find any person like you. Give her time and space, stay confident, don’t be too pushy. Just be clear and firm with your intention and everything will fall into place and before you knew it you are back in each other arms. To win back an ex-girlfriend requires creativity, sensitivity and patience.